Mark server unknown and clear the pool when background connections fail.
Eagerly evict threads from the wait queue when pool is paused. Evicted
threads will raise the following error:
AutoReconnect('localhost:27017: connection pool paused')
Introduce PoolClearedEvent and ConnectionPoolListener.pool_ready.
CMAP spec test changes:
- CMAP unit tests should not use real monitors
- Assert that CMAP threads complete all scheduled operations
At most 2 connections can be in the pending state per connection pool.
The pending state covers all the work required to setup a new connection
including TCP, TLS, and MongoDB authentication. For example, if two
threads are currently creating connections, a third thread will wait for
either an existing connection to be checked back into the pool or for
one of the two threads to finish creating a connection.
The change reduces the likelihood of connection storms and improves the
driver's ability to reuse existing connections.
